Students Sometimes Face ‘Lunch Shaming’ When They Can’t Pay

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Update, May 10
In response to this story:
>First Christian Church in Tulsa donated $2,885 to Tulsa Public Schools, which will pay off all students’ overdue meal accounts and provide a cushion to cover unpaid charges through the end of the school year, a school district spokeswoman said. Nearly all the unpaid balances are at middle and junior high schools, because elementary students eat free and high school students aren’t allowed to charge.
>The founder of a Florida-based charity, School Lunch Fairy, said that he will consider Oklahoma schools for future donations. School Lunch Fairy has raised more than $5,000 for emergency lunch funds and plans to expand to more than a dozen cities this summer.
>A GoFundMe campaign was created May 9 to raise money to pay off meal accounts in Oklahoma City Public Schools.


In schools across the nation, including in Oklahoma, children whose school meal accounts aren’t paid in full sometimes face embarrassment in the cafeteria line.

Some schools take away their trays and give them an alternative meal, like a cold sandwich. Others put a stamp on their hand that reads “lunch money” as an alert to parents but also visible to peers.

Practices such as these, called “lunch shaming,” have triggered parent backlash in some districts, including at least two in Oklahoma. The practice was recently banned in New Mexico, and Texas and California are considering similar laws.


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A few weeks ago, the Choctaw-Nicoma Park School District halted its practice of stamping the hands of children who owe lunch money after an outcry from parents.

Harrah Public Schools faced scrutiny recently when a substitute cafeteria worker took hot meals from children whose accounts were empty; the children received a cold sandwich to eat instead.

Oklahoma schools are allowed to take these actions because the state does not have a policy on how to treat non-paying students, letting districts decide for themselves.

Chris Bernard, executive director of nonprofit Hunger Free Oklahoma, said inferior meals, hand stamps and chores for students with meal debt unnecessarily humiliate children, which can lead to them being bullied or picked on and cause mental health issues.

“(Schools) need to be thinking about practices that are not singling out children for something they absolutely have no control over and potentially putting them in a situation where they don’t have the nourishment they need to be successful in school,” Bernard said.

The students affected by these policies typically don’t qualify for the federal free lunch program, although there may be some whose parents decline to apply. Still, there are often family circumstances behind meal debt, such as a parent losing a job, or working intermittently, or other financial setbacks.

But some school officials say lunch programs are costly to run, and unpaid meal debt is a problem they have to address. The debt can accumulate into thousands of dollars by the end of the school year.

The lunchtime incident at Harrah wasn’t handled properly, said Harrah Superintendent Paul Blessington, because students should have been identified before receiving the hot meal. By policy, students with unpaid charges are provided an alternative meal of a sandwich, fruit and drink.

The situation is difficult for a district like Harrah where about half the students qualify for free or reduced-price lunches but the other half pays full price, he said. Nationally, lunches cost about $2.50 each on average.

Blessington said the district can’t absorb thousands in unpaid lunch bills; the 2,200-student district has accumulated over $2,000 in unpaid meals this year.

At Choctaw-Nicoma Park, students’ hands were stamped only after accumulating a negative balance of more than $5 and the school had taken other steps to let families know of the unpaid charges, a school official said. Parents complained, however, and the practice was discontinued several weeks ago.

Unpaid meal debt is less of an issue at large urban school districts where most students receive free meals.

All of Tulsa Public Schools’ elementary students eat free. But middle-school students with more than $8.40 in unpaid charges receive an alternative meal, which is just half a cheese sandwich and water for lunch and a piece of toast or graham crackers for breakfast. High school students who can’t pay receive nothing.

That’s the official policy, but it is likely not enforced in schools out of compassion for the students, said Emma Garrett-Nelson, a district spokeswoman.

“Our guidance that we give to our cafeteria workers is the dignity of our students comes first,” Garrett-Nelson said.

Oklahoma City Public Schools has a no charge policy, and students with a zero balance receive either an alternative meal of a sandwich and milk or a regular hot meal, a district spokeswoman said.

Schools are expected to examine their lunch policies now because the U.S. Department of Agriculture, which administers school meal programs, has asked states to define their policies by July 1. Oklahoma doesn’t have a statewide policy, but local school districts will still have to submit a plan to the state Department of Education.

One recommendation by the Agriculture Department is to have schools move the cashier to the front of the lunch line to prevent situations where a child’s meal is taken away because they can’t pay, allowing staff to address the issue discreetly.

That practice — trashing lunches served to students who can’t pay — is now banned under New Mexico’s Hunger-Free Students’ Bill of Rights Act. The legislation, which was signed into law in April and is the first of its kind in the country, requires schools to give all students access to the same lunch regardless of ability to pay and prohibits schools from having students to do chores to work off debt.

The lawmaker who introduced it, New Mexico Sen. Michael Padilla, had to mop the floors of his school cafeteria when he couldn’t afford lunch, according to an NPR story.

  • Three Dollar Bill

    Time for the Hamm sandwich. By properly taxing the oilies, the lobbyslators could fund schools, but they are working on something nefarious.

  • 2 centz

    The sad thing is that the cafeteria workers are required to throw all the excess food away at the end of the lunch period. Why can’t they just let the kids have it? Why can’t it be donated to a non-profit? There are a loy of things wrong with the “system!” Kids should definitely not be embarrassed because their accounts are low or insufficient. It is completely out of their control.

  • Three Dollar Bill

    Starve bureaucrats, feed kids. Figure it out or it’s Summer Skool for the Bored of Education.

  • truman

    I say do away with sports which I think is a total waste of tax money.
    When I hear that student education may suffer because of the lack of funds but never any cuts to the sports department that concerns me.
    We don’t need more tax increase to solve this problem just get rid of the officials who can’t manage a budget. Start at the state capitol and clean house then move on to local schools.
    I would rather see schools compete for organic farming, math and science and engineering awards than sports any day. If the purpose of public schools is to train future pro sports heros then let the pro teams support all sports and public schools get back to education and hire quality educators. Sports are not educators.